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How Positivity Can Help Us Persevere in Times of Uncertainty
By Sara Wright, Guest blogger, PGA TOUR
Positivity and perseverance have always been revered characteristics. This seems true now more than ever before. For most, regular day-to-day routines were flipped completely upside down during the COVID-19 pandemic. And it was a rapid change to the norm.
As the global health crisis took shape, most children saw their schools closed and their sports and after-school activities canceled. This inevitably included First Tee’s in-person programs, which were suspended for the unforeseeable future.
Many parents created a virtual learning environment for their children at home. While the lucky ones worked remotely, many faced layoffs as businesses closed their doors and unemployment rates skyrocketed. Our work-life balance shifted and even regular interactions with family and friends changed drastically almost overnight.
While some states begin to slowly reopen, the future is still unclear. Around the world, people and businesses are doing their part: helping others, spreading good news and simply reassuring each other with signs or messages of positivity that we WILL get through this. We will persevere.
Examples of golfers using perseverance and positivity are also plentiful, but the name that sticks out to us is one that we’ve heard frequently over the past year.

She is not a professional golfer (at least not yet), but Amy Bockerstette, along with her iconic self-assurance and her “I got this” mentality, is a player who knows first-hand what it takes to persevere against all odds.
If you are one of the few who have not heard of ‘Amazing Amy’ yet, don’t worry. We got you. Watch this video released by the PGA TOUR about Amy and her viral moment with Gary Woodland in 2019 on the 16th hole at TPC Scottsdale.
So, what can we learn from Amy? Well, her story is one that truly shows just how powerful positive attitude and self-talk can be.
“Amy’s energy, her love, her attitude was so contagious,” four-time PGA TOUR winner Woodland said. “I need more of that, and I think the world needs more of that. Her positive self-talk is stuff I’m still using to this day.”
Woodland credited Amy’s positivity and perseverance as a driving force to his U.S. Open victory that came a few months after he met her. So if it works for Gary and Amy, it can work for all of us.
Positive self-talk is an essential tool in perseverance.
Positive self-talk helps boost your confidence. This seems like a no-brainer, but studies have shown that positive self-talk is among the most efficient and effective means of increasing a person’s self-confidence. Many psychologists believe confidence is one of the primary prerequisites to personal and professional success.
In addition, it helps eliminates stress. According to the American Heart Association, positive self-talk can aid in controlling stress. As a result, it makes you feel calmer and less anxious, reducing your risk of cardiovascular disease and other physical ailments brought on by stress.
How can you practice positive self-talk?
- Create a positive outcome in your head: Imagine a goal and how you will accomplish it. Once you keep this intent in mind, it becomes easier for you to accomplish and set out steps to achieve it.
- Build on your accomplishments: This can be done in two parts. First, remember your previous accomplishments. These memories will make you feel good about yourself. Then, praise yourself when you achieve your new goals.
- Repeated affirmations: Focus on regularly saying optimistic statements about yourself, your present endeavors or what goals you intend to accomplish. By repeating these affirmations, a person has a higher chance of recalling positive thoughts instead of negative ones.
One of the goals of First Tee is to better equip our children for whatever comes their way. With that in mind, we have provided a vision board activity to complete with your child at home.
A vision board is a physical representation of a goal or set of goals that you’re aiming to achieve. It is a collage of items that are meant to kick start their imagination and help visualize those goals with words of positivity and affirmation. Check out the project linked here on our new Links to Learning website.
With positive self-talk, we CAN persevere even through the most uncertain and trying of times. Remember, you’ve got this. (Now, just repeat that to yourself as often as it takes!)
A Class to Remember
RISHI AJJARAPU, FIRST TEE OF SILICON VALLEY

- College: Rutgers University, New Brunswick
- Major: Double Major in Business Analytics and Information Technology & Finance
- What accomplishment are you most proud of? I’m extremely proud of the way that our FBLA team did at the 2019 California FBLA States Competition. The 2019 California FBLA States took place in late March however, our work started in August. The steps included building a committee, building a mission statement, and then executing a project that we would later present.
Caleb Ashley, First Tee of Pine Mountain

- College: Morehead State University
- Major: Biomedical Sciences (Pre-Med Track)
- What accomplishment are you most proud of? Being named Valedictorian of my high school and being selected to participate in the 2019 PURE Insurance Championship at Pebble Beach.
Izabelle Ballin, First Tee of Greater Houston

- College: San Jacinto College
- Major: Undecided
- What accomplishment are you most proud of? Being able to say I competed in the Junior Olympics for track and field.
Stephen Dai, First Tee of Greater Seattle

- College: Carnegie Mellon University
- Major: Electrical & Computer Engineering
- What accomplishment are you most proud of? Getting top-5 in an AJGA event! Definitely marked a time I was at the top of my game.
Anthony Ford III, First Tee of Metro Atlanta

- College: Carolina A&T
- Major: Undecided
- What accomplishment are you most proud of? Winning the State Championship in 2019
Lukas Freelove, First Tee of Salina

- College: Kansas State University
- Major: Landscape Architecture
- What accomplishment are you most proud of? Working hard in school. I’m eager to see those efforts pay off in college.
Vivian Guite, First Tee of Naples/Collier

- College: University of South Florida
- Major: Undecided
- What accomplishment are you most proud of? I’m proud to have represented First Tee of Naples/Collier at the PURE Insurance Championship and of becoming a well-rounded individual and role model for others.
Ralph Kho, First Tee of Silicon Valley

- College: University of Dallas
- Major: Business
- What accomplishment are you most proud of? Setting and following goals, especially making the varsity golf team as a freshman.
Ashley Knepshield, First Tee of Greater Sacramento

- College: Santa Monica College
- Major: Undecided
- What accomplishment are you most proud of? Being awarded my chapter’s Core Value Award in 2017.
Kayli Lucas, First Tee of Tennessee

- College: University of Alabama
- Major: Biology
- What accomplishment are you most proud of? Being accepted into four First Tee national opportunities in a single academic year.
Logan Lurie, First Tee of Howard County

- College: University of Maryland, College Park
- Major: International Business Major; hoping to double-major in Economics
- What accomplishment are you most proud of? Winning the Coca-Cola America’s Future Scholarship. Being selected for this scholarship proved how much I have grown with First Tee!
Isabel Matos, First Tee of North Florida

- College: Southern Wesleyan University
- Major: Communications with a concentration in Media Production
- What accomplishment are you most proud of? Maintaining a 4.0 GPA and helping our high school golf team to place top-10 in states for three years.
Jacob Allen McGill, First Tee of Greater Trenton

- College: Penn State Brandywine
- Major: Undecided
- What accomplishment are you most proud of? I represented the First Tee of Greater Trenton in the 2015 Northeast Regional Championship in Pittsburgh where I won honors for the overall best score for the boys.
Mika Miyata, First Tee of Phoenix

- College: University of Nebraska Omaha
- Major: Undecided
- What accomplishment are you most proud of? Getting a scholarship to play Division I collegiate golf.
Austin Murphy, First Tee of Green Valley Ranch

- College: Prairie View A&M University
- Major: Business Administration, Management and Operations
- What accomplishment are you most proud of? Some accomplishments that I am proud of include being valedictorian for my middle school graduating class, earning scholarships, graduating high school and participating in varsity sports. But I believe that being able to represent my middle school as an Aurora Scholar in 2016 was probably my proudest accomplishment.
Lauren Parayno, First Tee of Fresno

- College: Dominican University of California
- Major: Nursing
- What accomplishment are you most proud of? Winning the Areas Tournament with a 68 as a freshman
Hailey Pendleton, First Tee of Greater Charlotte

- College: University of North Carolina at Asheville
- Major: Biology
- What accomplishment are you most proud of? Getting a scholarship to play Division I College Golf. Playing collegiate golf was always one of my biggest dreams and it proves to me that hard work pays off.
Owen Porter, First Tee of Greater Washington, D.C.

- College: Centre College
- Major: Economics
- What accomplishment are you most proud of? Achieving Eagle Scout in the Boy Scouts of America.
Shani Waite, First Tee of Los Angeles

- College: Prairie View A&M University
- Major: Undecided
- What accomplishment are you most proud of? Participating in the 2019 PURE Insurance Championship.
Taleah Washington, First Tee of Fort Worth

- College: Prairie View A&M University
- Major: Computer Engineering
- What accomplishment are you most proud of? Being nominated for the Texas UIL District 7-6A All-State Team with just four years of golf experience.
Alumni Spotlight: A Foundation of Values
Owais’ Story:
When Owais Durrani slips on his white doctor’s coat, he stands ready to help treat whatever illness or injury walks through the emergency room doors at UT Health in San Antonio. Currently finishing up his residency, Owais has quickly learned his profession is one that demands a lot – self-confidence, determination and resilience – characteristics he’s been building on since his time at First Tee.
“Life gets difficult and complex at times, but even the most challenging of circumstances boils down to a few basic principles – many of them included in First Tee’s values.”
During his time at First Tee of Greater Houston, Owais developed an interest in social issues and says First Tee gave him the confidence to pursue opportunities that he once didn’t see possible for himself as a first-generation American. Owais received his dual-Bachelor’s degree in Biology and Political Science from the University of Texas. He took his passion up a notch by attending medical school. In his gap year, Owais interned at the White House under the Obama administration. He remained dedicated to learning about how to address health disparities, one of his life’s greatest passions. Confident in his foundation, Owais is excited about his future giving back to underserved communities.
Meet the Winners of the Wells Fargo Succeeding Together Contest
Grand Prize Winner: Raymond Jin, First Tee of Greater Trenton

Jalyn Robinson, First Tee of Greater Sacramento (First Prize Winner)
Kayli Lucas, First Tee of Tennessee (First Prize Winner)

Maya Hunter, First Tee of Benton Harbor (First Prize Winner)

These four winners will attend the 2021 Wells Fargo Championship. As the Grand Prize Winner, Raymond will experience the thrill of playing golf with the PGA TOUR professional of his choice during the tournament’s pro-am. Thank you, Wells Fargo for your longstanding partnership and support of First Tee. Wells Fargo has renewed their commitment for the next five years to support First Tee’s youth development program. Thank you to all applicants, and congratulations to all finalists!
Four Steps to Prepare our Youth for Challenging Situations
Providing experiences that are just as fun as they are meaningful

STOP and take a deep breath.
When you face a challenge in life, the first step in deciding how to overcome it is to STOP what you are doing or what you are getting ready to do. This allows you to pause and gives your mind a break.THINK of all your choices.
The next step in good decision-making is to THINK of your choices. What are some of the choices you have in this situation? Take time to think of as many choices as possible.ANTICIPATE what could happen.
The third step is to ANTICIPATE the consequences (good or bad) of each choice. When you anticipate the consequences of each choice, think how the choice will affect your ability to reach your goals.RESPOND by selecting the best choice.
After you have identified all your choices and you have anticipated the consequences of each choice, the final step is to RESPOND by picking the best choice. What makes something the best choice? The best choice is the one that helps you get to your goal. What one person considers the best choice may differ from what another thinks is best. Empowering kids and teens through a lifetime of new challenges is at the heart of First Tee. With programs in all 50 states and select international locations, First Tee provides active learning experiences for youth that help build their inner strength, self-confidence and resilience. First Tee impacts more than 3.4 million youth each year, helping to strengthen their character through the game of golf.Continuous Learning Never Looked So Fun
Top 5 First Tee Chapter Activities Amidst COVID-19
Like the rest of the world, we’re adjusting to our “new normal” and how we keep our participants engaged during this time of social distancing. Our chapters have stepped up to the challenge to provide fun and exciting digital activities to keep kids moving and empowered to take on whatever challenges come their way. We invite you and your family to join us in these character-building activities that can be done wherever you are! You can find these posts and many more on our First Tee social channels. Be sure to follow us on Instagram, Facebook and Twitter for more information.First Tee of Greater Philadelphia
First Tee of Greater Philadelphia is offering virtual classes taught by their experienced coaches.
First Tee of Greater Charlotte
First Tee of Greater Charlotte is offering daily programming that includes special guests ranging from professional golfers to participants.
First Tee of the Triangle
First Tee of the Triangle is featuring activities and ideas – like healthy habits – that incorporate the entire family!
First Tee of Cleveland
First Tee of Cleveland has added cooking classes to their social media, including Coach Brian and his special guest Rylee who participate in the “Fit to a Tee Culinary Class” together.
First Tee of Greater Knoxville
First Tee of Greater Knoxville is promoting the opportunity for participants in the area to rent out equipment for free so that they can practice at home.
First Tee Response to COVID-19
- Enhanced communications and COVID-19 related webinars
- Facilitating peer to peer interaction and support through internal channels
- Creating and providing digital resources to chapters and coaches
- Sharing uplifting content and updates from around the network through our Facebook, Instagram and Twitter
Past, Present, Future: Success Knows No Gender
PAST: LPGA Founders

PRESENT: Dr. Condoleezza Rice

FUTURE: Noor Ahmed

First Tee Kicks Off Nationwide Summer Registration at THE PLAYERS, Engages Kids & Fans Through On-Site Experiences
- The 17th Hole Challenge presented by Morgan Stanley, Grant Thornton and Optum: First Tee is about building character and using that inner-strength to take on new challenges in life. Throughout the week, guests can demonstrate their self-confidence on a replica of the famed par-3 17th at TPC Sawgrass. Fans will have the option to purchase a third shot or a First Tee Fast Pass, with proceeds benefiting First Tee of North Florida. Located in THE PLAYERS Welcome Experience at the Nicklaus entry, high-profile influencers and celebrities are known to stop by to take the challenge.
- Youth Clinic with PGA TOUR pros: On Monday, March 9, a youth clinic will take place with participants from the First Tee of North Florida and PGA TOUR professionals, in conjunction with Nike, at the 17th Hole Challenge. Media are invited for the purposes of covering the event and must apply for tournament credentials by February 28 at pgatourmedia.com.
- Girls Golf Mentoring Event: On Tuesday, March 10, Morgan Stanley – one of THE PLAYERS Championship’s Proud Partners – will host girls from First Tee of North Florida in a private event focused on mentorship and financial literacy with LPGA professional Cheyenne Woods and local Morgan Stanley leaders. Media are invited for the purposes of covering the event and must apply for tournament credentials by February 28 at pgatourmedia.com.
- Featured Charity of the Day: On Wednesday, March 11, First Tee will give away free bag tags to the first 5,000 fans and will be featured onsite throughout the tournament and on THE PLAYERS digital channels.
- Cola’s Reverse Vending Machine Benefiting First Tee: Fans can demonstrate their commitment to the next generation by recycling all plastic bottles throughout the week in Coca-Cola’s ‘reverse vending machine’ in Stadium Village. With each recycled item, Coca-Cola will automatically donate to First Tee of North Florida.
- Featured First Tee Participants and Alumni at THE PLAYERS: Throughout the week, First Tee of North Florida participants will be experiencing the event, many for the first time, and First Tee, First Tee of North Florida and THE PLAYERS will spotlight their engagement on digital channels. Bios and quotes are below.
First Tee Launches Enhanced College Scholarship Program
New national program extends First Tee’s impact to alumni, providing support focused on personal growth, mentorship and financial assistance
ST. AUGUSTINE, Fla. (Feb. 18, 2020) – First Tee, a youth development organization providing active learning experiences to help young people build character through the game of golf, is enhancing its national scholarship program to include deeper support for alumni. First Tee College Scholarship Program will now provide selected alumni entering college with financial assistance, professional development workshops and substantial mentoring throughout their college experience.
One of the key components of the First Tee College Scholarship Program is pairing scholars with a dedicated, trained adult mentor who will help encourage and guide them throughout the college experience, including in-person meet ups. The program also provides scholarships up to $5,000 per year for four years, plus professional development workshops. Scholars will also receive assistance with internships and full-time employment placement post-graduation.
“At First Tee, we want to inspire and empower every young person we reach to set goals and begin pursuing them,” said First Tee President Greg McLaughlin. “Providing an enhanced and more robust College Scholarship Program furthers our efforts to motivate young people to stay in our programs, and support alumni as they move through the college process. Education remains incredibly valuable in today’s competitive world, and we want to advance First Tee alumni through this program.”
The program is open to active participants of First Tee chapters graduating from high school and planning to attend college. Applicants will be considered based on financial need, academic performance, chapter involvement, volunteerism and other criteria. Applications are now being accepted. The scholars will be announced at the end of May.
For more information on the First Tee College Scholarship Program, visit firsttee.org.
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About First Tee
First Tee is a nonprofit youth development organization whose mission is to impact the lives of young people by providing educational programs that build character and instill life-enhancing values through the game of golf. Since its beginning in 1997, First Tee has expanded to reach millions of young people on golf courses, in schools and at youth centers. First Tee is headquartered in St. Augustine, Florida, USA, with programs in all 50 United States and select international locations.